i just find it a shame that people waste their lives going to church, praying, living in fear ya know? its more pity than hate
There is no need to pity them Josh, don't forget, this is their reality. And if it works for them then it's good. If their thing is not yours, then just stay away from it/them, don't react to whatever they say to you.
I work with several deeply religious guys. They spend most of their free time at church. They believe,they pray, they live their lives based on the scriptures of the Bible. And you know what? It works for them. They are pretty well balanced, "normal" people, easy to get along with, and they don't push their beliefs on others.
Years ago I had debates with them about the Bible and their beliefs, I could not understand how all that stuff sounds true to them. I know better now. The thing is, not everyone is suited for individual thinking. There are many people who don't know how to structure their own lives. They've been brought up with the dogmas of their religion, and those basically instruct them how to run their lives. They don't have to deviate from the "plan", they don't have to take risks, they don't have to make difficult decisions, the Bible takes care of that. And many people need the comfort that this kind of life brings.
We have many thoughts, feelings, some we understand about ourselves and some we don't. Some people are frightened by their own thoughts and feelings, reactions, and don't know what to do with them. The Bible takes care of that also, it tells them what's appropriate and not, so people don't have to agonize over what to do with their errant thoughts either.
So religion suits a lot of people, it shapes their reality, and their reality is not worth any less than ours, no matter how different it might be.
My philosophy is kind of like "live and let live". Let everyone create, live, enjoy the reality they made for themselves, and not judge those whose reality don't make sense to us. Not unless their reality and actions do others harm. Then of course we have to kick their arses.
